I once went to a seminar entitled "Encouraging Resilience in a FS Child" and I took notes, listened, participated in group discussions, blah, blah, blah. Turns out, more than 1/2 the battle is having a child with innate resilience. Already built-in, no assembly required.
Tonight, from the bathtub, Allison summoned.
Allison: Can you come here?
Me: Coming (argh...she better not have sprayed the entire bathroom with water again!!!)
Upon entering said bathroom.....
Me: What's up?
Allison: Look at the gecko's cute little toesies....